Today, I did something most un-Costa Rican at lunch.
Today's Lunch
In Zapote to deliver my remaining course materials to the school office, I decided to have lunch at a nearby soda that I knew offered excellent meals.
I was one of the first lunch customers so had to wait a few minutes for my meal to be ready.
When the owner of the soda proudly delivered my hot, heaping plate, I was delighted with how delicious it looked...and amazed at how much food was piled high on the platter.
In clockwise order around the platter were huge servings...easy double the North American norm...of green salad, beans, rice and fried plantains, topped by a fillet of fish that must have been 8” long and 4” wide.
The size of this meal was typical for a soda, as was the price: about $3.35.
The fact that I did not eat all of this meal was not typically Costa Rican. I left enough of everything but salad to feed another non-Tico.
Yes, Ticos have hearty appetites. And much of what they eat is high in fat, salt, sugar and carbs.
Very soon after arriving here, I made the decision to go easy on meals like today's lunch, but to enjoy as much fresh fruit as I wanted. Good choice!
Positive Experiences
Walking home from Zapote (got home before the rain started today, so far I am still dry), I found myself reflecting on what a positive and happy experience I have had here. Certainly it's a beautiful country and the people whom I've met and interacted with are wonderful.
But in so many ways, exercising available options and making the small choices of life, like what and how much to eat, have been a continuing source of joy.
I was happy to find a couple of pairs of good quality casual slacks that were on sale for less than $6.00 each AND fit.
That happiness was enhanced when I found a neighbour lady who was able to shorten and hem the slacks for me for about $9.00 for both pairs.
Similarly when the shoulder strap on a recently purchased weekend size bag broke, with some effort, I found a man who was able to repair the strap, quickly and inexpensively.
What was truly gratifying was that all of these transactions, the purchase, alterations and repair were done in a combination of Spanish and sign-language.
Sure I could have chosen to buy slacks at Winners back in Toronto, had the slacks altered at the mall and given the bag away. These would have been easy, no-brainer decisions. But it was truly gratifying to find and exercise local options for those small choices.
Little Achievements
Certainly, our major accomplishments and successes make huge contributions to our happiness.
But so do the little achievements, like completing small transactions in a foreign language.
Throughout my life, I have been plagued by the consequences of default decisions. Those are the decisions that we simply let happen to us, instead of consciously making deliberate choices for specific reasons.
Thanks to the lady who shortened my slacks and the man who fixed my bag, I now know how gratifying it can be to make choices consciously and exercise options proactively, regardless of how small and relatively insignificant they may appear.
A good lesson, well learned. What a great souvenir of this wonderful country!
